Im writing a post with listening 'la belle dame sans regrets' by sting's voice..with Bose speaker..I feel so elegant and happiness..so glad I met this beautiful song..
I've thought of writing about ordeal of escort life. Especially regarding touring escort. Copy from fellow's practial story which can be absolutely mine.
My fellow escort, she recently back to this industry and off to Europe for business. I concerned of her so often asked how's it going and..unfortunately wind up to hear negative stories often than happy one.
1. Unfriendly hotel reception
Hotel reception asked her to check out immediately once they found her receive a client. Not only her, the other lady checked in airbnb but kicked out in the middle of the night, right after the host found her online..
This is november Europe is quite cold now. And the poor lady was just kicked out suddenly the only reason they do sexwork..perhaps they/we must be more discrete or just can be spoken like 'unluck' but seems like many sexworkers kicked out by hotel..which is dreadful..what the hell is wrong with sexwork? do sex is perfectly alright in a hotel but sex work is unforgivable? But can't people be generous to give some time before brutally just kick out? In life, there is warning signs...seesm like today's world majority of people criminalize sexworkers. They insist sex is no problem but sex work is crime. I can see no logic in there.
Of course too obvious undiscrete naughty behaviour must be refrained for fine hotel atmosphere. There are honoroble sexworkers more than naughty girls I believe..
2. Ad sites
Backpage was terminated and suddenly was at a loss and i think Im still is where to go..suddenly all shredded..I had to spend couple of times more expense for Ad on some Ad sites. Truely I miss backpage..
The world overall is degenerated by the most powerful politician in the world..and the result of FOSTA&SESTA? In my opinion, sexwork industry is more booming in other different ways. See twitter or instagram..and sugarbaby seeking site..it's booming and seems very busy and thriving.
Hypocrisy! sexwork is crime but sugarbaby thing is ok?! this is called hypocrisy. We are living in the world of hypocrisy. Not surprising at all. But at least before, people just blinked their eye on sexworkers..hotel concierge or hotel manager..
Back to the point, the ad site fee is over the top especially in Europe. I have that money to spend but what im saying is it's too much to advertising! 350euro for upgraded ad..and majority of girls only charge below 350euro...that's so nonsense...How come our basic service fare can be lower than Ad fee? Even the other most popular site ask 20euro per day! PER DAY! but many poor sexworkers pay that! for living a life!
3. No shows, No deposit
No show makes sexworker furious. ruin the day. Deposit is truely a hot potato i can understand at client's end. However how could I fly to Europe from Asia without credit? Flight costs 2,500~3,000$ business returns. plus hotels, living costs overall it's 10,000$ and dare to fly 10,000miles without deposit? I did not bother to study hard to wasting my time and money, energy...it's really super dangerous go on tour without deposit or any credits.
4. Too low market rates
I lowered my rate for Europe, lowered more than I charge in here Bangkok. But i know it is still high. And seems like Europeans were shocked by my rate. Quite weird thing is, the european clients I meet at Aisa, they don't complain of my rate..
5.Too dangerous work atmosphere
My fellow sexworker once toured to another big city of France. After coarsely kicked out from a few hotels (the hotel reception just denied to check in her from the first when they checked her passport without explaning reason), she got an expensive hotel, received a client, that bugger brought out a knife and threatened her asking cash! She screamed and screamed as 'help me' but no one responsed. There utterly was janitor right outside of her room. But never wondered what was going on. Perhaps cause it was not a french? C'mon...
Very outrageous and shocking. As a sexworker plus a foreigner who non-EU, without proper visa, we are not brave enough to ask help to police because the consequense is so obvious that we'll gonna be interrogated, criminalized, arrested and be in jail, get rid of all money by police..
However does that mean that the girls like us should be leave in danger without proper protection? At that expensive hotel and no one's in hand?
My fellow had other outrageous robbery experience at her own flat. Disguised as proper client, but threaten her and robbed all her money. Even copper do that bullshit too.
6. Difficulty of credit/debit card payment for ad
My fellow and I had a difficulty to pay with our own visa/ master card for ad site payment. Wound uo to saw 'please check your bank that whether they allow to transter to company in EU' somthing like this..Some issued countries just recognise ad sites as dangerouse one so they do not willing to allow payment. Yes...all these phenomenom was caused by Mr. Trump! The police country USA made sexwork industry ruined world widely! We gotta bother ourselves to purchase prepaid card which is not so difficult but another pain in the arse!